l have been feeling a little sensitive about this matter lately, my circle has gotten definetely smaller yet is much more healthier, genuine, and loving. Although l accept it, in my human body and mind l let myself feel hurt and bring doubt. However my stronger self understands the courage it took or is taking for the boundaries to form, for the wounds to heal, and for the grieve to bring peace and discernment.
Many childhood friendships have ended due to gossip and control, taking sides and only listening to one sided stories, some others have gotten stronger and more meaningful through the highs and lows. Some family dynamics have needed reevaluations to limit keen access and control and allow true value to shelter myself and my loved ones from drought, manipulation, and harm.
Over decades my circles grow and get smaller in numbers, they are constantly changing due to location, situations, networks, and circumstances yet some circles grow bigger in depth and become complex 3D spheres of generational relationships with family and friendship bonds that grown stronger & intertwined.
I embrace the changes that continue to happen & give me the strenght to let go, distance, or shield me and my loved ones from the people who do not value or genuinely care for us.
I honor the choices l make to put myself first & learn the lessons the universe has in store for this human experience. I love myself so deeply and sharing about it heals me as a whole.
So do not be afraid to let go of people and allow your circle to get smaller, the ones who fit your life purpose will remain and continue to add value for you and into your world.
Permission granted to unfriend, unfollow, and move on ~no questions asked~
